Has anyone ever heard of ben wa balls? Well I hadn’t until the wife introduced me to them. I also was not aware or a wartenberg wheel. Allow me to define both:
Ben Wa balls, also known as Orgasm balls, rin-no-tama, Venus balls or Geisha balls (Chinese: 阴道球; pinyin: yīndàoqiú “vagina ball”, or Chinese: 内用球; pinyin: nèiyòngqiú “internal-use ball”), are small, marble-sized balls, usually hollow and containing a small weight, that roll around and are used for sexual stimulation
A Wartenberg wheel, also called a Wartenberg pinwheel or Wartenberg neurowheel, is a medical device for neurological use. Robert Wartenberg (1887–1956) designed the wheel to test nerve reactions (sensitivity) as it rolled systematically across the skin. A Wartenberg wheel is generally made of stainless steel with a handle of approximately 7 inches (18 cm) in length. The wheel, which has evenly spaced radiating sharp pins, rotates as it is rolled across the flesh. The Wartenberg wheel is also used as a BDSM or sensation sex toy, sometimes while connected to a violet wand electrical device.
Pretty kinky right? The wife and I came into possession of a Wartenberg wheel some time ago. It can really spice up the sex if youre into the pain/pleasure thing like I am. But the ben wa balls are a new addition to the sex toy drawer. The wife purchased them off Amazon and they arrived in a cute black box the other day. I opened it up like a kid on Christmas. Inside lay two type of ben wa balls. The first had ONE ball attached to a stretchy silicone loop for your finger to fit in to manipulate the ball. The second one had TWO balls attached to a similar loop. Both were hot pink and had a bit of weight to them.
The other night we put them to use. The wife kissed all over my body getting me nice and wet. She gently parted my legs and reached for the lube and the ben wa balls out of the end table. She made sure the balls were nice and lubricated before shoving them inside me. She is very sexy like that. She can go from sweet to rough in a blink of an eye. I never know what is coming next. Once the balls were inside me they felt good. Really good…. It was a very caressing yet stimulating feeling. When my hips would move, you could feel the weight inside the balls shift therefor adding pressure to different parts of my pussy. It became almost like a game. I would tighten up, and hold. She would firmly pull the loop on the balls. She would use more effort with every second. I would try and hold on as long as I could before they were pulled from my wet pussy…drenched. She made it like a game. A game of course that she always wins.
As I would feel my body recovering from this “tug-of war”. She would slide them back inside me for round 2. Fuck it was hot. I love to be told what to do and to be dominated. The wife and I are always on the same page about this. MY pussy is really HER pussy. She can do whatever she wants with it. I like it this way. It is truly what turns me on.
My orgasms have been so much more intense since being completely off the Zoloft. Ive been on the Wellbutrin for almost a week now. Not really noticing anything except for a little more energy and being very short tempered. I am hoping this will come to pass as I level off. The head aches are better now. I only get maybe one or two a day, but they are not as debilitating. Just trying to keep my head up and make it through. But it doesn’t hurt to have mind blowing sex in the mean time : )